Our family’s semi-annual trip to the dentist was a highlight of my day. They had this new, super comfy headrest and the hygienist hardly spoke while she polished my teeth, so I could just lay there with my eyes closed. Ahh, it was a day of appreciating the dentist chair.
The rest of the day had too much crying and whining and work presentations with mathematical content. While I was cooking dinner, I reached the end of my patience–hours earlier than usual. I normally make it smoothly until second bedtime until I lose it. Today, I lost it in the kitchen at a pan of potstickers that were supposed to be dinner and got unyieldingly stuck to the pan. (I just heard that in my head as I wrote it. WTF, potstickers!? I should probably feel like a moron, but I feel mad. Instead of just calling them “potstickers,” why don’t we address the underlying problem, Trader Joe’s?) Any way, as I was throwing a seventh-grade style fit at the Asian food in my kitchen, Ella interrupted to ask me to come help her find something. Something I had JUST handed her. (Originally, I blamed her first distraction for the potsticker situation. I’ll have to reevaluate that, given the new information.)
I told her to go look by herself. Three times. She got that I wasn’t caving, so she left. Not to look; to write me a note about my behavior.
To those who don’t speak kindergarten phonetic, no-vowel spelling, it says, “Friends help each other [who knows] look for things.”
She brought it in, hung it on the dishwasher next to me, and cleared her throat.
Friends help each other. A beautiful lesson I taught her. Or Dora the Explorer. I am an advocate of “helping.” Not maybe at earlier today in the kitchen, but going forward, I think I can get behind this new model of friendship and communication. I have sayings ready for several new signs to deck out the house:
- Friends appreciate a good stretch of silence every so often.
- Friends moderate their use of hand soap. Seriously, D2.
- Friends never wake up at night, except to go independently to the bathroom or quietly solve their own problems.
- Friends do NOT need poop assistance of any kind. Ever.
- Friends enjoy a wide variety of music, with each song in daily moderation.
- Friends understand and make peace with the inevitable instance we forget something when leaving the house. They never just sob “I need my ___________” over and over in the car.
- Friends LOVE having their hair fixed. Brushed, even styled. When it is time to style it, they hold still, admire your braiding skills, and remember not to immediately practice somersaults.
- Friends always know the location of both mates to at least one pair of shoes at all times.
Excuse me. I am off to make these signs. And look for Ella’s thing.
You should mass produce these signs!
All good points :-).
I have raged over potstickers a few too many times. I heard once that the trick is to not move or stir them once you start cooking them. This is counterintuitive but I have a vague memory of it actually working (this was before Ryan’s mention that he’s not a big fan of potstickers, and my decision to quit making them). I hope that helps you next time!
Friends put Ella’s signs in the mail and share them with adoring aunts. I would totally hang that on the fridge.
Darling, brilliant, amusing. Love you all